Management is hospitality

And why we should think of this as a responsibility

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Management is hospitality in disguise.

  • Why it matters: Viewing management through a hospitality lens can transform leadership, boost team morale, and improve workplace culture.

Just as restaurants create magical escapes for guests, managers can craft enriching environments for their teams.

I was inspired to write this week’s newsletter as I’m reading Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara right now. One quote stood out to me:

The moment you pursue service through the lens of hospitality, you’ll understand there’s nobility in it. We may not be saving people’s lives, but we do have the ability to make their lives better by creating a magical world they can escape to, and I can see that not as an opportunity, but as a responsibility and a reason for pride.

Sure, this quote (and the book) is about the restaurant industry, but in reality, every manager is in the service business. Managers "serve" their teams by:

  • Creating welcoming environments: Foster a positive atmosphere where team members feel valued and comfortable from day 1

  • Anticipating needs: Proactively provide resources, support, or guidance before team members have to ask

  • Solving problems swiftly: Address issues quickly and effectively to maintain smooth operations and improve team satisfaction

  • Providing personalized attention: One size does not fit all in management. Understand and cater to each team member's unique strengths, challenges, and aspirations, especially when having development conversations

  • Crafting meaningful experiences: Make work rewarding by connecting daily tasks to larger goals and personal growth. Align the work to personal goals where possible, and provide opportunities for growth between team members

The bottom line: Embracing hospitality in management isn't just an opportunity—it's a responsibility. Will Guidara is onto something here, and we should absolutely be applying his thoughts towards hospitality to the way we manage our teams.

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